What about love life?

What is it?

Sexual and intimacy issues refer to difficulties in experiencing or expressing sexual desire, pleasure, or emotional closeness with a partner. These challenges can be physical, psychological, or relational, and may include low libido, performance anxiety, lack of satisfaction, or fear of intimacy. They are often linked to stress, trauma, relationship problems, or underlying mental or physical health conditions.

Prevalence and statistics

• Around 43% of women and 31% of men experience some form of sexual dysfunction.

• Low sexual desire is the most common issue among women, affecting up to 1 in 3.

• Erectile dysfunction affects up to 50% of men over age 40.

• Psychological factors contribute to 20–50% of all sexual difficulties.

• Intimacy issues are a leading cause of relationship dissatisfaction and separation.

How to identify?

Emotional signs –

• Anxiety, guilt, or shame around sex or physical closeness

• Emotional detachment or fear of vulnerability

• Frustration or sadness due to unmet emotional or physical needs

Physical signs –

• Lack of sexual arousal or pleasure

• Erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness

• Pain during intercourse or other physical discomforts

Behavioural signs –

• Avoidance of sexual activity or intimate situations

• Over-reliance on pornography or fantasy to replace real connection

• Withdrawal from physical affection or communication with partner

Cognitive signs –

• Negative beliefs about sex, body image, or self-worth

• Performance anxiety or fear of rejection

• Preoccupation with past trauma or negative sexual experiences

Common Types of Issues:

• Low Libido – Reduced interest in sexual activity

• Erectile Dysfunction / Arousal Issues – Difficulty becoming or staying physically aroused

• Premature or Delayed Ejaculation / Orgasm Disorders – Trouble with sexual climax

• Pain Disorders – Genital pain during sex (e.g., dyspareunia, vaginismus)

• Fear of Intimacy – Difficulty forming or maintaining close emotional bonds

  
  

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