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Are you good enough?

Updated: May 17



What is it?

Self-confidence is your belief in your ability to handle life’s challenges, while self-esteem reflects your overall sense of self-worth. When these are low, it can lead to constant self-doubt, fear of failure, and difficulty recognizing your value. These patterns often develop from negative experiences, criticism, or unmet emotional needs—and can silently affect every aspect of life.


Complications if left unaddressed:


Medical Health:

  • Neglect of self-care habits leading to poor nutrition and physical health

  • Weakened immune status

  • Poor posture leading to orthopaedic and muscle problems

  • Headaches and muscle tension/ soreness


Mental Health:

  • Anxiety, especially social anxiety

  • Depression, hopelessness, or feelings of worthlessness

  • Perfectionism or fear of judgment

  • High sensitivity to criticism

  • Internalized negative self-talk

  • Sleep disturbances

  • High risk/ increase in substance use


Personal Impact:

  • Avoidance of opportunities or challenges

  • Difficulty setting boundaries or saying “no”

  • Shame over past mistakes or current limitations

  • Constant comparison may lead to excessive physical activity, overspending on clothing, cosmetics, or luxury items, and lead to an unhealthy preoccupation with appearance, often resulting in frequent visits to dermatologists, salons, or aesthetic clinics


Family and Relationships:

  • Fear of rejection or abandonment

  • Becoming overly dependent or people-pleasing

  • Struggles with intimacy or trust

  • Withdrawing emotionally or socially


Social and Work Life:

  • Hesitation to speak up or share ideas

  • Difficulty asserting oneself or taking initiative

  • Stalled career progress due to lack of self-belief

  • Being overlooked or undervalued in social groups


How counseling or therapy helps:

Therapy offers a safe, non-judgmental space to rebuild your relationship with yourself. Sessions will help you:

  • Explore the roots of low self-worth and challenge negative beliefs

  • Learn to set healthy boundaries and accept your imperfections

  • Build self-awareness, self-acceptance, and inner confidence

  • Develop assertiveness and decision-making skills

  • Gain tools to cope with criticism, rejection, or fear of failure

  • Reconnect with your strengths and values


You are not less. You have been told you are less.



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